Quick update for folks emailing and calling me re. the gunman in the building
Addendum to clarify: I do not work in this building or there. However, a number of family members and friends do.
So far I've managed to reach most family and friends. All are safe. Luckily quite a few family members were not on site today for one reason or another. Most are now offsite. One friend is there, in the building in question, however he is in a secure location and is safe.
The hitch is there are meetings in this building, so people who would not normally be there are there.
If we hear anything further I'll let you know.
Thanks for the care. Julie
P.P.S. The kids saw this live as it began. There isn't a way to keep it from them. I welcome any suggestions about how to address this situation with them. Right now all I've said is a man who is mad is locked in the building and the police are working out how to get him out. Patience has asked about all the people we know there, especially family, and I've assured her they are all okay. One friend is there, but safe. I keep emphasizing that. Any ideas about how to explain this?
Addendum to clarify: I do not work in this building or there. However, a number of family members and friends do.
So far I've managed to reach most family and friends. All are safe. Luckily quite a few family members were not on site today for one reason or another. Most are now offsite. One friend is there, in the building in question, however he is in a secure location and is safe.
The hitch is there are meetings in this building, so people who would not normally be there are there.
If we hear anything further I'll let you know.
Thanks for the care. Julie
P.P.S. The kids saw this live as it began. There isn't a way to keep it from them. I welcome any suggestions about how to address this situation with them. Right now all I've said is a man who is mad is locked in the building and the police are working out how to get him out. Patience has asked about all the people we know there, especially family, and I've assured her they are all okay. One friend is there, but safe. I keep emphasizing that. Any ideas about how to explain this?
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Jayzus! What a week!
Peace,
~Chani
I'm glad all your family and friends are safe. It is so scary to think of the possibilities.
Oh, and flares? What flares? I'm missing something here. Are you okay?
Glad your friends and family are safe.
Having just botched a discussion with my son Ben about the Virginia Tech shootings, I am in no position to offer advice.
I wish I had advice on the talks.
thinking of you (health and all as well).
I thought of you, too, when I saw that news TODAY, so my good wishes were a little late.
Re: your kids. At some point, you can't hide the truth from them completely, right? I think you said the right thing, being honest. What kids want to know is that YOU can keep them safe, no matter what happens in the larger world.
No sense bursting that particular bubble yet .....
My cell phone was dead so as soon as we got home I turned on the TV for them (Noggin, not CNN, FWIW, LOL) which is VERY unusual, and didn't even fight Persistence when she got up from nap (without sleeping). So all out of character and routine. Also I got on the phone and started calling a zillion people, also odd for me. She's sensitive enough and plus it was pretty obvious, so she was really asking.
I just let her know a man who was very sad and mad made a bad choice, and decided to hurt someone else and himself. I told her it was tragic and sad. She said scary and I agreed. She asked if the people were dead, and I said yes, two people, then said but we do not know them. I did not mention the other two people. Then we talked about the people we know and I said they were safe and fine. I told her that we were safe and fine, and assured her I keep her safe.
Then we all got together over at my best friend's house, which everyone needed. She was reassured to see everyone okay.
She seems okay.
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Izzy, not me, friends and family.
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Atypical, thanks, it's been some crazy week, eh?
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Jen, I think this is clustering, you know? I have my theories as to the rest, but it's just theories.
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Slouching mom, yeah, these things with kids are SO tricky. I'm glad too and hoping that this sort of thing ends with the week.
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M-L, I'll email you.
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Chani, yeah, what a week. So tragic.
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Kyla, thanks hon.